(yes that is the view my bf gets sometimes when I turn on my cam... or use the nikon camera he sent to me to email him a little "treat").
Most of the thousands of people who have written to me in the past 2 years asking my help to find a Filipina to love, have not bothered to fill out a basic and free yahoo messenger profile. As the owner of a free Filipina pix-trading group I can guarantee, no profile means, little or no chance of finding any lady interested in chat with such a "busy" person.
The fact is, most ladies have been BOTHERED by such people. If you want to look at free, sexy pictures of Filipinas that is great, and you have made it to the right place for that. But if you want to to actually meet a Filipina, here are a few guidelines that MOST of your "competition" is not going to do. So if you do it you are way ahead of the game.
First, realize that most ladies are BOTHERED by the SPEEDOS (speed masturbators, they are under some sort of deadline to workout their little head very quick) out there. As soon as the "online" light comes on they start flooding you.... "hiii" they will say, the lady then checks the profile and it is empty... and then she hits IGY (IGNORE) so that she won't be bothered by Mr. Empty.
Are there exceptions? Sure, the men who made up a female profile as the only way they can get a lady to talk to them (the "Pretenders" just use an internet circulating photo), or the men who made up a "couple" profile for the same purpose (and the lady is never around). It is sure silly for two guys to be talking to each other, when one of them is pretending to be a lady. If that is your interest this is the WRONG place, please go somewhere else.
How do you do a profile and still remain anonymous on the internet? Cmon. Write out your interests, what books (do you read? wow how unusual!!!), or movies, or songs you like. what do you like to do? What kind of a person are you, what will you do for a lady? Do you have an idea what you would like to find in a lady? Very simple, what do you offer, and what do you seek? And, can you put a batch of photos in there? It does not have to actually SHOW YOUR FACE in order to be interesting.
All I am trying to say is, if you want to meet some ladies, PUT SOME EFFORT into it.
All of this by the way, goes DOUBLE for the ladies. All you have to do is put together a profile like I just said, and your chances are MUCH better to attract interest from men. Men are much more visual than ladies so, if you put a batch of photos (yes you can hide your face) that is fine, the important thing is, PUT SOME PIX IN THERE on your profile.
To get ideas for your profile, read other people's profiles, invest some time, take some notes. Look at the profile of BOTH sexes. If you are a guy, look at what the ladies say they are looking for, and what kind of lady they say they are. Remember, most are empty. So whoever invests some time on this topic REALLY DOES stand out.
Now, how can you get some attention for your little "advertisement" of a profile page?
Well, you should join groups like my FilipinaRozPix and FilipinaReview groups where there are LINKS section for you to put your profile link and some information about WHAT YOU WANT, and WHAT YOU OFFER.
Also, you can participate in the groups and blogs wherever possible, and usually your name is your "ad" link to your profile. That doesn't mean everyone wants to hear about how lovesick you are - nothing is more boring and makes a girl run faster than hearing how DESPERATE you are. You should PARTICATE. For examples, go to my free yahoo groups and read the comments from members. Any of them could easily get a handful of ladies clicking through to read their profile page after their email was "published" in the group.
Even a blog like this will attract some readers, and if you put a blog comment you might find some lady click through to read your profile. It is just a matter of saying something useful and constructive, in order to get your email approved. Especially, if it is a photo trading group, just send in on-topic photos to that group and mention your interest in finding a lady to chat with.
Most of the time that men write in they are under the delusion that a group owner like me is willing to approve their eager and even desperate solicitation for a girl to call on them right away who lives in Dubai or wherever, because they are horny for some sex, so please call me if you live here.
How stupid can you get?
One nutcase even wrote in and offered his own wild speculation that he thinks that I am prejudiced against a certain nationality (hint: mideast) because I do not approve such messages short, desperate messages, and that is all the poor unfortunte, culturally starved people in those areas know to do.
Cmon. Anybody can read, listen, learn and then act. If you think that ladies are like furniture because that is your religion or your upbringing, I am not wishing to debate or argue with you about that, just teach you, THAT is not what the rest of us think, and you won't get very far without a credit card if you want a lady to talk to on the internet.
But, if you read this far, congrats, you did do some learning. Now, study the photos that I am offering you here, join free yahoo groups and get to work.
