How to get a date with Bianca (not!)

What NOT TO SAY 

when you meet a Filipina (online)

(and a few positive suggestions too)

What do you think - if that's the picture of the girl (Bianca, free photo gallery HERE), and the guy is the other picture (cartoon character?? see profile HERE, be ready to burst out loud laughing), if you were the girl would you be interested in meeting that one and going out for a date this Saturday night?

Yes, I admit it is sometimes pretty funny for me with the blogs and yahoo groups that I am operating - the comments are real ROFL material.  So, thank you for today's topic, JunC.

Its one thing to walk up to a cute Filipina in a shopping mall, chat with her awhile and then ask her if you can buy her a cup of coffee in a nearby coffee shop.  But how do you break the ice on the internet?  For example...

Jun Castro writes me, "Is Bianca available? Can She go out with me? Please give details." (see http://profiles.yahoo.com/jo112187)

How nice.  I'm sure Miss Bianca, the Filipina amateur who I featured in a recent blog post and whose pictures I sent to my friends at several of my yahoo groups, would be so happy to know that she has attracted the romantic interest of this gentleman.

Get all of the Bianca (explicit) pix click HERE.

I cannot wait to tell Miss Bianca, that this fellow who named himself "Jun Castro," who has a cartoon character for his personal profile picture, no age listed or shown, no description of who he is, what he is, what he does for a living, what books he likes to read, what are his favorite movies, nothing at all - but he wants to know if she is available.

Well JunC, its like this.

The good news first.  Most likely, Miss Bianca is indeed available.

If she feels safe that she will not be hurt or put into an embarrassing situation, where she can escape easily if she wants to, where it is totally safe, and if you pay cash in advance, and if you really can afford it, you might be able to get access to Miss Bianca, perhaps long enough to shoot 50 or 100 photos. 

And, if I cannot find you Miss Bianca, I might be able to find another nice Filipina for you but again - depends on how much you want to spend, and how safe of a situation we can arrange, ie. if we can arrange a public place first so she is feeling safe, and if she can bring someone along she can trust, and doesn't have to go someplace that would worry her.

Perhaps you should pick out a backup girl in case Miss Bianca is not available.  You can try my other free blogspot, there's a bunch of girls there you can pick one of them out, click HERE.

Is that enough details?

Actually, when you think about it, Miss Bianca has given you a lot more details than you gave her.

It always amazes me how many gentlemen (and I am really giving you the benefit of the doubt to call you that because I am Filipina - by nature very generous and trusting) think that a girl must give her interest and attention to a man who tells nothing about himself, offers nothing, says nothing, explains nothing, but wants the girl.

Often, girls who use the internet tell me that they are asked simply, if she likes a large gentleman's tool.  As if the claim to own such a large penis should make all women fall down prostate before the man?  As if a visual proof of such, would then make us surrender everything to follow that man? 

It is just too funny sometimes, reading the messages that I get here.

The profile page of Mr. JunC is actually, not as empty as most of them are who make such requests.

Why is it such a terribly difficult idea to grasp, that no woman just wants to "give you her stuff" in exchange for nothing at all?

Either you pay with your attention and interest and tell her good stories and good information about you and your promises for the future, or you can take out your credit card to find girls to talk to you, with your money. 

Gentlemen (and some ladies) if you want the goods you pay something.  We don't give this up for beggars. 

You want sucking, use of the titties, the moist and juicy parts?  Well now.  What do you offer in return?  And who are you anyway - if I want no story and no romance and no promises, I can use a cucumber then instead, no mess to clean up later.

Can you offer stability in the girl's life?  Can you offer something amusing, interesting, perhaps even very fascinating? 

Cmon guys.  Your life is a story.  You can keep anonymous (as I do) and still reveal about your personality, your likes and dislikes.  What you offer of interest to a girl.  And, what are you looking for?

JunC wants to "go out" he says.  Where?  He says, go out "with me." Who are you?  He wants to know if she is "available."  For what?  For how long?  And, while not telling what he wants, he also does not tell, what is the benefit to the girl?  Cash?  A good time?  A movie to watch?  Dinner? 

I hope this gives you an idea of what you should write for your profile page.  Even if you don't tell all the details of your life, even if you wish to be anonymous, you can still tell something that shows your personality, what you are looking for, what you are offering, even a photo that is disguised to hide your face would be interesting, especially if you put some thought into the background and surroundings in the photo.

Very important - don't forget this critical detail.  You should write to offer what a girl wants, not what you want, not what you THINK she wants.  It is amazing how many guys will proudly announce that they have a cock.  Wow!!  Imagine such!!

What is expected of a girl who hears such announcement? 

Lets see.  You say "I have a cock" and she says:

Oh my.  I was so worried you might not have one of those!  Now that I know this statement as true just because you told me so, I am yours, to do with as you wish - shall I show you all my goods right now on CAM, or would you prefer I come over to your house for my performance?

or how about:

Oh good.  I was so worried and wanted to ask you about that very thing."

or,

Yes, but how well does it work?

or,

I'll bet you do, and I'll bet you masturbate too every day, since that intro line won't ever get you a girl.

or,

You do?  Wow!  And does telling girls that get you laid very often? (that one came from my USA bf).

or,

I have one too.  But mine never goes limp, never makes a mess, doesn't boast, and always gives me at least three orgasms.  It is called a dildo.

Serious.  What is the reason except utter stupidity, for any guy to announce such to a girl he just meets on the internet?

My thinking is the only serious response to the statement from the guy "I have a cock" is for the girl to say, "and do you also have a credit card with over $100 credit on it?" because if yes to cock and credit card, we can do something.

If you are looking to develop a relationship with a girl you don't tell her you have a cock.  Trust me.  Most girls can figure out the chances are good that you were equipped with standard issue at birth, and this is not on her mind, and not her worry.  She is concerned what you want, who are you, what you offer?

The usual response is, you want my goods, you offer nothing, you are nothing, you are nobody, and you want it now.

Really now.  Will all the stupid ones STOP with that?   Most of the ladies I know who use the internet just stay "invisible" and use their IGNORE button many times per log on, for all the fools

So my suggestion to guys is this.

Take time to make a profile page - whether you use myspace or facebook or yahoo all this is free, you must just spend your time.  Put a human photo not cartoon, even if you cover your face.  Put some personality into the mix.  Explain your past, what you are now, and where you are going into the future.  Then say what you are looking for, and what you offer to the person who links up with you.

Most important is this.  If you like chocolate candy and coca cola but you wish to catch a flounder fish, you do not offer to the fish what YOU enjoy.  You take the time to learn, WHAT IS IT that the fish likes?  If yucky, freshly bleeding, wounded worms, then OFFER THAT if you want to catch the fish.

Foolish guys wise up.  The smart guys are always looking to learn more what do ladies want?

Scroll up.  Read again: my suggestion to guys is this.  Write it down.  Do it.  AND THEN, and only then, begin your search with nice emails and offer the link to your profile page.

Sincerely,

FilipinaRoz

6122/861

P.S. don't forget to visit my other blogs:
http://ManilaAmateurs.blogspot.com

http://FilipinaPREVIEW.blogspot.com

http://FilipinaRoz.sensualwriter.com (my extra naughty blog)

and two of my friends have other blogs that you might enjoy:
http://Ching4u.blogspot.com
http://AsianErotic.blogspot.com

He thinks I am good and desirous? - or does he say that to all the ladies?

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How to find a Filipina

Did you fill out your profile?

(yes that is the view my bf gets sometimes when I turn on my cam... or use the nikon camera he sent to me to email him a little "treat").

Most of the thousands of people who have written to me in the past 2 years asking my help to find a Filipina to love, have not bothered to fill out a basic and free yahoo messenger profile. As the owner of a free Filipina pix-trading group I can guarantee, no profile means, little or no chance of finding any lady interested in chat with such a "busy" person.

The fact is, most ladies have been BOTHERED by such people. If you want to look at free, sexy pictures of Filipinas that is great, and you have made it to the right place for that. But if you want to to actually meet a Filipina, here are a few guidelines that MOST of your "competition" is not going to do. So if you do it you are way ahead of the game.

First, realize that most ladies are BOTHERED by the SPEEDOS (speed masturbators, they are under some sort of deadline to workout their little head very quick) out there. As soon as the "online" light comes on they start flooding you.... "hiii" they will say, the lady then checks the profile and it is empty... and then she hits IGY (IGNORE) so that she won't be bothered by Mr. Empty.

Are there exceptions? Sure, the men who made up a female profile as the only way they can get a lady to talk to them (the "Pretenders" just use an internet circulating photo), or the men who made up a "couple" profile for the same purpose (and the lady is never around). It is sure silly for two guys to be talking to each other, when one of them is pretending to be a lady. If that is your interest this is the WRONG place, please go somewhere else.

How do you do a profile and still remain anonymous on the internet? Cmon. Write out your interests, what books (do you read? wow how unusual!!!), or movies, or songs you like. what do you like to do? What kind of a person are you, what will you do for a lady? Do you have an idea what you would like to find in a lady? Very simple, what do you offer, and what do you seek? And, can you put a batch of photos in there? It does not have to actually SHOW YOUR FACE in order to be interesting.

All I am trying to say is, if you want to meet some ladies, PUT SOME EFFORT into it.

All of this by the way, goes DOUBLE for the ladies. All you have to do is put together a profile like I just said, and your chances are MUCH better to attract interest from men. Men are much more visual than ladies so, if you put a batch of photos (yes you can hide your face) that is fine, the important thing is, PUT SOME PIX IN THERE on your profile.

To get ideas for your profile, read other people's profiles, invest some time, take some notes. Look at the profile of BOTH sexes. If you are a guy, look at what the ladies say they are looking for, and what kind of lady they say they are. Remember, most are empty. So whoever invests some time on this topic REALLY DOES stand out.

Now, how can you get some attention for your little "advertisement" of a profile page?

Well, you should join groups like my FilipinaRozPix and FilipinaReview groups where there are LINKS section for you to put your profile link and some information about WHAT YOU WANT, and WHAT YOU OFFER.

Also, you can participate in the groups and blogs wherever possible, and usually your name is your "ad" link to your profile. That doesn't mean everyone wants to hear about how lovesick you are - nothing is more boring and makes a girl run faster than hearing how DESPERATE you are. You should PARTICATE. For examples, go to my free yahoo groups and read the comments from members. Any of them could easily get a handful of ladies clicking through to read their profile page after their email was "published" in the group.

Even a blog like this will attract some readers, and if you put a blog comment you might find some lady click through to read your profile. It is just a matter of saying something useful and constructive, in order to get your email approved. Especially, if it is a photo trading group, just send in on-topic photos to that group and mention your interest in finding a lady to chat with.

Most of the time that men write in they are under the delusion that a group owner like me is willing to approve their eager and even desperate solicitation for a girl to call on them right away who lives in Dubai or wherever, because they are horny for some sex, so please call me if you live here.

How stupid can you get?

One nutcase even wrote in and offered his own wild speculation that he thinks that I am prejudiced against a certain nationality (hint: mideast) because I do not approve such messages short, desperate messages, and that is all the poor unfortunte, culturally starved people in those areas know to do.

Cmon. Anybody can read, listen, learn and then act. If you think that ladies are like furniture because that is your religion or your upbringing, I am not wishing to debate or argue with you about that, just teach you, THAT is not what the rest of us think, and you won't get very far without a credit card if you want a lady to talk to on the internet.

But, if you read this far, congrats, you did do some learning. Now, study the photos that I am offering you here, join free yahoo groups and get to work.